Today (Wednesday), Adam and I took a drive to Crowley & Lafayette to help say good bye to my great uncle – Uncle Byron. To tell you the truth – it was a completely and utterly exhausting day.
As most everyone, I cried. But I don’t think that was the exhausting part. I LOVED my Uncle Byron, but was not near as close to him as his kids and grandkids were. Watching people you love grieve for someone so close to them is so hard. THAT, I think, was the exhausting part. The sadness and grief you feel throughout the day. Being there, with hugs & conversation, is what and why I knew we needed to be there. More than for our own personal reasons & goodbyes.
My mom (the frequent commenter here under the name “Kim Ardoin”) can write and speak so easily and beautifully, it just baffles me constantly. As this week has been turned upside down by Uncle Byron’s death, I’ve told friends how – for whatever reason – my mom is almost always the strength and backbone during these times. She can come right in and orchestrate everything for our family and friends during these sad times. It’s just an unusual gift from God that she’s been given, I guess. I love you, Mom.
So, just as she chose the reading for his Mass, she gave his Eulogy as well. So much of our family loved it, I offered to type it up (from the scribbles in a Jeff Gordan notepad lol), and email it to Byron’s daughter and grandkids. So during this, for whatever reason, I’ve copied what she read and posted it here. If you have a few extra minutes, it’s really truly beautiful and fit my Uncle to a T.
Quote mom read today (part of what Mom read today):
“His greatest contributions are the ones he left behind.” - Alan Jackson’s song “Small Town Southern Man”
I have a commercial shoot tomorrow (Thursday) morning, and everything resumes from there.
One MORE insane thing? – My last living great-grandmother passed away last night (Tuesday night). So, as we dressed to leave for Byron’s funeral this morning, we were trying to find out when her funeral will be. Insane.
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